50 of the Different Types of Sex I’ve Had Over the Past 13 Years

Chloe Pedley Feb 14, 2014 0 comments 1

When it comes to sex, we can sometimes be a little obsessed with whether the sex we’re having is good or bad. Is it satisfying or disappointing? Are we having it for the right reasons? With the right people? Under the right circumstances? Sure, these can be important questions. Sometimes. But all that analysis and navel gazing can be exhausting,…

Sex Up Your Underwear Drawer on Any Budget

Chloe Pedley Feb 7, 2014 0 comments 0

Underwear is functional. It protects out privates from the elements and the ravages of gravity. But it’s also more than that. Say what you will about body confidence and not buying into consumerist ideologies, but underwear often yields a strange kind of power over the mind. It can shape our curves into hourglasses, but it can also play a huge…

Quit Knocking Granny Panties: Big Knickers are Back

Chloe Pedley Feb 1, 2014 2 comments 0

I channelled fictional book and film heroine Bridgette Jones recently and purchased a pair of enormous “pants”. And not the sucky-in, torturous shapewear kind either. These knickers were silky seam-free and pretty and reminiscent of a bygone era… and pulling them up and up and up towards my belly button felt surprisingly satisfying. Like I was discovering some secret long…

Celebrate Your Bangin’ Body (For Your Best Sex Yet)

Chloe Pedley Jan 28, 2014 0 comments 0

If one of your wishes for 2014 was to have better sex, hold on to your pearls, girl! Better sex is a state of mind, and body confidence plays a significant role in how you feel between the sheets. It’s common sense, really. If you feel frumpy or self-conscious, you’re not going to feel sexy. And if you don’t feel…

4 Reasons to Let Your Partner Watch You Masturbate

Chloe Pedley Jan 16, 2014 3 comments 1

If your partner wants to watch you rub one out, flick the bean, catch the solo train to pleasure town (insert your own favorite euphemism here), there are four great reasons you should consider granting their racy request. Big note here: you absolutely don’t have to let anyone in on your solo lovin’ time, and you should never feel pressured. But…

Kill Your Television: Sex Games You Can Play Tonight

Chloe Pedley Jan 7, 2014 0 comments 0

Your favorite television show may be filled with intrigue and excitement, but could it be killing your sex life? Too much time in front of the idiot-box can drain our energy when it comes to other more active pursuits, so dedicate at least one night a week to spicing up your bedroom antics with some naughty games for grown-ups. Sex…

Our Guide to Making Your Own Sex Tapes

Chloe Pedley Dec 27, 2013 1 comments 0

I’m not sure whether making your own sex tapes are more common nowadays, or whether we’re just more open about them. I imagine our easy access to technology probably has something to do with it – after all, 20 years ago making one would have meant setting up a hefty cassette video recorder on a tripod in a corner of…

BDSM For Absolute Beginners

Chloe Pedley Dec 24, 2013 0 comments 0

For the uninitiated and unfamiliar, BDSM (bondage, discipline and sadomasochism) is a broad umbrella term alluding to a wide array of erotic practices involving dominance and submission. There are many sub-cultures that identify with the BDSM catchall, and while many BDSM-associated practices are sexual, not all involve sex. For some, pleasure is derived simply in the act of submitting to…

You’re Doing It Wrong! How to Get What You Want In Bed

Chloe Pedley Dec 22, 2013 0 comments 0

Sex is, obviously, a very personal and intimate experience, which is why sometimes it can be difficult to ask for what you want. Especially if you’re sharing the experience with someone new. Not communicating your desires and hot spots to your partner can end in heartbreak and sexual disaster, as so delightfully lamented by Lily Allen in Not Fair. The…

You Don’t have to Deep-Throat. Tips for Giving Great Head.

Chloe Pedley Dec 13, 2013 0 comments 0

Fellatio, oral sex, sucking off, blowing, giving head… whatever you call it, there probably isn’t a man alive who doesn’t love it. Want to give a better blow job? Forget everything you’ve seen in porn. The quick, robotic, bobbing up and down on your bloke’s bratwurst with your mouth is generally pretty unsexy. And for many women, the ability to…