BDSM For Absolute Beginners

Chloe Pedley Dec 24, 2013 0 comments 0

For the uninitiated and unfamiliar, BDSM (bondage, discipline and sadomasochism) is a broad umbrella term alluding to a wide array of erotic practices involving dominance and submission. There are many sub-cultures that identify with the BDSM catchall, and while many BDSM-associated practices are sexual, not all involve sex. For some, pleasure is derived simply in the act of submitting to…

You’re Doing It Wrong! How to Get What You Want In Bed

Chloe Pedley Dec 22, 2013 0 comments 0

Sex is, obviously, a very personal and intimate experience, which is why sometimes it can be difficult to ask for what you want. Especially if you’re sharing the experience with someone new. Not communicating your desires and hot spots to your partner can end in heartbreak and sexual disaster, as so delightfully lamented by Lily Allen in Not Fair. The…

Intimate, Hot, Sensual: Side By Side Sex Position

Chloe Pedley Dec 20, 2013 0 comments 0

Slow, sensual, intimate – the side by side position is for smoldering, sexy love making. This isn’t a quick fuck position, this is candle light and love making by the fireside, this is the stuff of erotica novels! The intimacy is the biggest benefit of this position, with full skin to skin touching, releasing yummy love hormones and building the…

The Difference Between Yes and YES YES YES!

Chloe Pedley Dec 19, 2013 1 comments 0

Enthusiastic consent. It’s a really simple term, and it’s a really simple concept – but somehow, the lines got blurred.  Enthusiastic consent very simply means that both participants are excited, willing, and able to say yes to sex. Which in my opinion is pretty sexy. What if a woman says yes, but then says no… – That’s NOT enthusiastic consent…

Do You Have Chlamydia ‘The Gooey Stuff’ ?

Emma Stewart Dec 17, 2013 1 comments 0

Silent Epidemic WTF!??! ‘Gooey stuff’…who did that??  However, the slang term for this particularly frisky little bacterium can be misleading in that your down belows aren’t that likely to erupt into an oozing pustule when you contract it. It’s often referred to as the “Silent Epidemic” in that most of those who contract it are asymptomatic (have no symptoms). The…

You Don’t have to Deep-Throat. Tips for Giving Great Head.

Chloe Pedley Dec 13, 2013 0 comments 0

Fellatio, oral sex, sucking off, blowing, giving head… whatever you call it, there probably isn’t a man alive who doesn’t love it. Want to give a better blow job? Forget everything you’ve seen in porn. The quick, robotic, bobbing up and down on your bloke’s bratwurst with your mouth is generally pretty unsexy. And for many women, the ability to…

Yeeehaw! The Reverse Cowgirl Position

Chloe Pedley Dec 10, 2013 0 comments 0

The reverse cowgirl position is one of the woman on top positions that gives you a lot of freedom to explore your body. It’s a visually stimulating position, which is why it’s popular in porn. Soft, round buttocks bouncing up and down – it’s the stuff of sexual fantasy! Get your man to lie on his back, straddle him and…

Bringing Sexy Back When You’re Not In The Mood

Chloe Pedley Dec 6, 2013 0 comments 0

Have you ever had a really rough day at work, or been incredibly stressed about your family drama, or just had a few weeks of feeling generally down in the dumps and thought, ‘you know what will cheer me right up? Some sex. Yep – that oughtta do it’. Not so much? Yeah, that goes for around 80 percent of…

Road Tested: Best Positions For Oral Sex

Chloe Pedley Nov 30, 2013 0 comments 0

This post contains affiliate links. Oral sex is sublimely intimate and erotic, and it can also be one of the sure-fire ways to bring a woman to orgasm. Want to mix things up a little? While the 69er is notoriously difficult to come through, and other oral positions look as though they can only be achieved by yogic masters, contortionists…

5 Weird Sex Toys That Made Me LOL This Week

Chloe Pedley Nov 29, 2013 0 comments 3

So, let me pre-empt this post by saying first and foremost that I most definitely do not judge your sexual preferences or kinks or fetishes, or anyone else’s for that matter. We’re all wired differently, and we should all be free to get our kicks via any (legal, consenting) means that tickles our fancy, so to speak. That being said,…