How do you masturbate? Is it quick, silent, and over as fast as possible? I'm going to encourage you to try something new.. something a little different, perhaps something indulgent.
Masturbation is all about discovering your body, finding what turns you on, what feels deliciously good, and being present to the delightful sensations.
For this little exercise in sex for one, you'll need some satiny, silky fabric. Think slinky stockings, a silky nighty, boxer shorts, or even a satin pillow case. I have been told that satin fabrics are slinkier and softer than real silk, and they're easier to wash..!
Set the mood, and set aside time just for yourself when you're not going to be interrupted. I deeply encourage you to use a hand mirror to watch yourself, and watch your beautiful pussy as it gets more aroused... watch as it changes, becomes engorged, slippery, sexy....
Or if you're feeling really daring, film yourself as you discover and explore the folds of your vulva. (Word to the wise, most smart phones have an auto upload feature. Be sure to turn that off if you're not comfortable with the potential of your video making it to the net!) (I like to use an old school digital camera with no wifi!)
Dim the lights, get comfortable, and explore your gorgeous, sexy pussy using the piece of silky, satiny fabric as a delightful, teasing, pleasure -tool just for you.
Be present to the sensations, breathe, feel your sexual energy pulse through your body. Experiment with touch - firm, feathery light, fast, slow, lightly drag the satin across your vulva, slide it over your vulva, pull it taught and tease your clit through the fabric... play and discover what feels good.
We would absolutely LOVE if you would like to share your satiny adventures. Feel free to comment below!
Photo Credit: andresr